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PATREON/GUMROAD
I mostly consider myself a soft core artist of the gei kind, with the occasional nsfw material.
So sometimes I do stuff like this where sex just casually comes up in the conversation. After all it’s such a big part of gei culture. Many things revolve around it, and it would feel wrong not to acknowledge that Eiden and Arslan, sometimes talk about the topic or flirt about it.
Even if they have been dating for a long time, it’s part of their daily lives.
Arslan is a sweetheart to Eiden, part of why Eiden loves his sunshine tiger. But sometimes, a little coy weaving the topic into a conversation in a natural, sometime joke-ey kinda way. After all they are partners.
Arslan might just be smooth with it like that.
Arslan’s Two Month Rule
Arslan has a weird rule, he doesn’t like to complicate relationships past longer than two months. His last relationship – actually more like a situation-ship with benefits.
[#Rexford] and [#Arslan] did fool around for a bit. And it all started because of a gym bag mixup. Rexford and Arslan became good friends, Rexford owning his own MMA private family gym, invited Arslan to train there whenever he wanted, an excuse Rexford set up to see him more. After all, there were some pics of Arslan, Rexford was already quite fond off. Rex noticed Arslan had his gym bag all thorn up from years of usage, so he gifted him a new one, just like the one he himself has. That’s where the confusion came in, it could have happened to anyone.
Arslan confessed – but not before taking advantage himself. Once Rexford was back home, going through his own gym bag, he finds out Arslan forgot to return a very specific item. Blondie forgot to pack the undies he had taken out!
Rex then confronted Arslan about it, Arslan got super nervous, not knowing what to say, palms sweating, heartbeat racing. Until Rex finally makes the situation crystal clear. What follows is what Rexford wanted from the very begging. But it was a fluke since Rexford has been wanting it for far too long. Thinking and imagining what it would be like. Rex was okay bottoming for Arslan because of his body. That should be red flag number one.
What follows is a crazy two months of hooking up, a push and pull from two tops who both fail to submit to one another. Arslan does eventually give in – but not in a way he particularly liked.
Arslan and Rexford hold a friendly rivalry when it comes to encounters of the third kind.
The relationship ended for the exact same reason Arslan already feared – the exact same reason Arslan has to end all of his relationships.
The One Thing Arslan Hates
Arslan hates being used for his body.
I mean he’ll allow it for a little while – always thinking that the other guy might change, that the relationship might evolve into something more. He wants to give a fair chance to everyone. But until now every single guy has proved to be superficial towards him. It might be fun for a while, but if it’s for the long run, it has to be more than just sex.
Arslan doesn’t particularly like dealing with the implosion of emotions inside of him when he breaks up with boyfriends.
In the past Arslan dated guy after guy and they would break up with him or he would have to break up with them. All for the exact same reason, every – single – time.
Arslan wants someone that matches his level, his energy, and keeps things interesting in the bedroom as well as the relationship itself. It’s not like he can’t sit idle, but sitting still for too long suffocates him. he searches for that emotional connection. And someone that keeps challenging him, emotionally, mentally and physical.
Until he met Eiden.
Eiden is serious, quiet, introverted and reserved. Their meet cute is cannon sensitive however.
Arslan wasn’t expecting to become boyfriends with Eiden. But two months passed in the blink of an eye. After all Eiden isn’t the type of guy Arslan usually goes for.
Eiden admitted that yes at first he was attracted to Arslan because of his body, his masculine features and his golden frizzle medium long blonde hair. But something had changed over this short time and Eiden isn’t exactly sure what. But Eiden knew that he wanted to protect Arslan, to give him love and cherish for all that is him.
Eiden constantly kept pulling green flags for Arslan. And Arslan filled everything Eiden ever wanted. Even if Eiden is a little bit of a social drinker. It only happens once in a blue moon, not enough to be a problem, but worrying enough to talk about it. And come to a conclusion as a couple.
The Truth About Arslan
I’d like to think that Arslan is an expert at sneaking around, hooking up with guys when it’s only about sex. Arslan plays the dumb jock, but he actually got mad game.
Until Eiden and Arslan became boyfriends, things slowed down a lot for them. They became each others world.
In the end Arslan was looking for a life partner. Someone who’s on the same wavelength, even if Eiden is a lot more serious, and not as charismatic. Arslan doesn’t really care about all that, because the most important part about love is letting the other person be themselves.
As they got to know each other on a deeper level Arslan realized something – Eiden is actually a very detail oriented person. His apartment is always clean, he goes to the gym at least once a day.
Arslan played a little dirty trick and stayed over a whole week at Eiden’s house, lying about a gas leak at his apartment. Taking care to notice the little details. Like how often he did laundry, did he take care of the dishes, and how much did Eiden actually care about expenses around the house.
Going grocery shopping together, and even Arslan meal prepping on Sunday. Arslan really thought this could be their life. Which it eventually did.
Small things like that eventually pile into a whole relationship.
It’s more than just all that
As more time progressed, these things became more natural, morning hugs became a standard, sitting together Arslan would spread his legs enough for his knee to touch Eiden, embracing it, by pushing against Arslan’s knee too. Holding hands in public, playing footsies at dinner. Jumping on top of Eiden whenever he was lying on the couch.
Watching movies on the weekend, ends up a whole cuddling session.
Doing things like that, and have them be reciprocarte, or accepted with love, is what truly made Arslan fall head over heels. Eiden also cares to let Arslan be himself around him. Constantly nourishing that desire. And remembering little facts to care for him later.
Arslan’s favorite foods, his favorite brand of sport clothes, the shampoo he uses, his favorite bar of soap.
Cuddling at night might come with extra side of welcomed excitement, from Arslan’s part (🍆🍑) . Arslan loves being the big spoon. Happens every night. Even if they’re both tired, Eiden has grown accustomed to it though.
It goes away eventually, maybe, maybe not.
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