Special interview inside!
Q – So, who’s the one who starts intimacy most often?
A – Actually, that would be me, right?
E – Yeah, you usually ask me 3 or 4 times a week!
A – It used to be a lot more when we first started dating.
E- Like A LOT more. Not that I’m complaining.
Q – Can you share who’s the top and the bottom.
E – Sure I don’t mind. What about you?
A – I mean…
E – I’m usually the bottom.
A – Yeah
E – And Ar’s usually the top.
A – But sometimes it’s the other way around.
E – Not that often, and we last a lot longer when I’m on top.
Q – How much longer?
E – Like 45 minutes sometimes longer.
A – Yeah.
A – But if I’m top?
E – 5 maybe 10 minutes and I usually finish first.
A – Yep!
Q – Whats your relationship status?
A – It’s monogamy.
E – Yeah, and I don’t share.
A – Neither do I.
Q – That’s surprising! How do you keep things spicy in the bedroom.
E – Actually, we went to a gay bar and a drag performer made a joke about crusing. Ar, leans in and asks. What’s crusing?
A – I’ve actually never done it!
E – Right?!
E – So I explained it to him and he suggested.
A – We try it out with each other.
E – So now, we try new places on the weekends.
A – We just went camping last weekend, actually.
E – I love taking him camping, he’s built like the rock, but he’s the only one who can keep up with me.
A – Really? You think I’m built like the rock!
E – Yeah, and you have a pretty face too tiger.
Q – Really? When you’re hiking does Eiden take the lead.
A – Yeah, he like researches the trail and everything. Honestly I’m passenger princess. He drives us there. We stop at little tourist places. See the sights. And on the mountain – It’s hard to keep up with him sometimes.
E – I mean, we’re going to the middle of nowhere. We gotta be prepared! Plus it’s like a little trip out the city. Besides I just do a lot of cardio.
Q – Wow, that’s seems really fun! Now tell me, what are some things you like about each other?
A – Oh, me? Is this a trick question?
E – No, just answer honestly!
A – Okay… I mean honestly he treats me like a king, the other day I was coaching at my buddy’s Rex’s gym, Eiden texts me. Hey babe, when are you done coaching? Picks me up, takes me for sushi, then we go to his apartment, make snacks, watch a movie, I’m sitting on the floor, he’s on the couch, we’re cuddling his legs over my shoulder, I lean back, he puts a face mask on me. Umm- makes me breakfast the next morning, takes me shopping, buys me new clothes. I mean it goes on like that.
E – I like the muscles.
(Arslan bursts out laughing.) (Eiden has a coy smile)
Q – Is it just the muscles?
E – No, that was a joke. Of course who’s not gonna like a face like that? He’s just my type, sure his gains are insane, but I got muscle too bitch!
A – Yeah, he’s like a true sleeper build. You would think he’s a twink, put you can cut food on those abs, if you know what I mean!
E – Hehe
A – Honestly most of our time is spent at the gym or doing other activities. And that’s something important for me. I know most people go to the gym and just concentrate like they have horse blinds on. But I yap way too much. With everyone all the time. So it’s something important for me that my boyfriend also feels comfortable spending time with me in my element.
E – Yeah I’m always telling him he should get his coaching license already! Rex would totally hire you on the spot!
Q – So you guys don’t do party drugs?
A – I do magic gummies sometimes??
E – I’m the one who has the magic gummies. I also smoke the devil’s lettuce. It’s for special occasions though and we don’t really leave the apartment. Sometimes it’s nice to stay in like that.
A – I know right!
E – But we don’t touch anything else. And we also eat pretty clean. So there’s that! We don’t really like that kind of stuff anyway.
Q – you guys seem like a good match! Oh and you’ve mentioned this Rex person a couple of times now. Can you tell us more about him?
A – He’s an old friend from Uni! We still keep in touch.
E – Rex is also another gym rat.
A – Yeah, and his boyfriend Emmet has this killer makeup line!
Q – Emmet sounds like a boy?
A – Yep! Emmet is a lot softer compared to Rex. Eiden and I, sort of have a competition going on in our relationship. We build each other up. It’s actually something I’ve been looking in a boyfriend for a long time.
E – Yeah! Emmett and Rex are a lot more chill. They’re hard to make plans with, they’re more homebody’s, we bring them pizza sometimes and watch TV. Meanwhile Ar’s and I like going out to bars and hanging out with friends. But I do also need my alone time.
A – And we play board games!
Q – Would you say you guys are more extroverts?
A – Oh yeah, I thought I was an extrovert, but Eiden will quickly put me in place.
E – I might just be an extrovert in disguise.
A – Yeah you totally are!!
E – Sunday is our rest day or date day?
A – It usually turns into date days and we do something fun!
Q – Well sounds like you’re keeping busy! Do you guys have a good relationship with Rex? Do you go on double dates?
E – Yeah I love Emm. He’s like the only gay that understand my tiktok references.
A – Yeah and Rex hates me.
E – He doesn’t hate you! He just has a mean face. And can be a bit cold sometimes.
A – Something like that! 😅
Q – Well thanks for talking with us today!
A – Anytime!
E – Sure thing!
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